今天在回家的路上,外面下着雨,在车中听着收音机所播放的歌,莫文蔚唱的“外面的世界”这首歌,心,感觉很平静。看着外面的雨,哼着这首歌的旋律,我微笑着,我想,有些过去,我学会了去感激,我学会释怀了。
回家后,心中闪过一个念头,突然想要打电话给一个朋友。我感觉有些奇怪为什么自己会想要找她,因为平时多数是她主动找我的,但今天我竟然会想打电话给她聊天。后来,忙完后,原本因为身体有些累(谁叫我昨晚睡不好@.@)想要睡觉懒惰打给她的,但爸妈正巧又告诉我这朋友的婆婆去世了,叫我打电话去慰问她,我就赶快去翻报纸来看,才明白为什么刚有闪过一下强烈的感觉要打电话给她。
电话接通了,她的语气就像一直以来我所认识的她。有事情的时候,她总是在装笑的那种声音,那种硬逼自己装开朗的那个她。我没有办法去问她问得太多,毕竟现在她还在守丧,我自己也经历过这段时间,知道她这几天会有很多事情要忙,而且她也在家人面前一起守丧,我连和她通电话时她有时都还在忙着帮家人一些东西。我明白她不会允许自己在这种时候让自己掉泪的,所以也就和她随性的聊了一下,而不去聊得太深。
明天会去看她。祝福她。
这让我想到我自己。
这让我想起一些经历了类似经历的朋友。
在心中,祝福她,祝福那些朋友,祝福我自己。祝福所有的人。
祝福她,有自己的时间和空间,允许自己去哀伤。。
my faVoUritE Inspired quOtes~
- ~ Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart. Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakens. – Carl Jung ~
- ~ Praise and blame, gain and loss, pleasure and sorrow, come and go like the wind. To be happy, rest like a giant tree in the midst of them all. --Buddha ~
- ~ 生命影响生命。~
- ~ The point of love is to make us grow, it is not to make us immediately happy. Marriame Williamson ~
- ~ The problem is never the problem. It is only a symptom of something much deeper. by Virginia Satir ~
- ~ Problem is not the problem, COPING is the problem. by Virginia Satir ~
- ~ 不要害怕犯错,从经验中学习。There is no mistake, only learning opportunity. ~
- ~ Transformation has occurred, when a person goes from saying, " I want to be loved" to " I am loved - by me". by Virginia Satir ~
- ~ You must become the change you want to see in the world. –Gandhi ~
- ~ Be patient with yourself.~
- ~ The more I Love Myself, the more I SEE Love reflected in those around me.~
- ~Don’t ask yourself what the world needs, ask yourself what makes you come alive. And then go and do that. Because what the world needs is people who are alive.” – Howard Thurman~
- 少一些批判、比较、分别心,多一些了解、包容与接纳。
- ~ Make choices based on love and not fear. ~
- What is not love, is fear.
- ~ Love heals all. ~
- 只要你们肯多用心,留意身边的人与事,就会发现,原来自己拥有的,已经很多。
- U r here bcz of many ppl's kindness and contribution, so be appreciate.
Tuesday, November 15, 2011
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