my faVoUritE Inspired quOtes~

  • ~ Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart. Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakens. – Carl Jung ~
  • ~ Praise and blame, gain and loss, pleasure and sorrow, come and go like the wind. To be happy, rest like a giant tree in the midst of them all. --Buddha ~
  • ~ 生命影响生命。~
  • ~ The point of love is to make us grow, it is not to make us immediately happy. Marriame Williamson ~
  • ~ The problem is never the problem. It is only a symptom of something much deeper. by Virginia Satir ~
  • ~ Problem is not the problem, COPING is the problem. by Virginia Satir ~
  • ~ 不要害怕犯错，从经验中学习。There is no mistake, only learning opportunity. ~
  • ~ Transformation has occurred, when a person goes from saying, " I want to be loved" to " I am loved - by me". by Virginia Satir ~
  • ~ You must become the change you want to see in the world. –Gandhi ~
  • ~ Be patient with yourself.~
  • ~ The more I Love Myself, the more I SEE Love reflected in those around me.~
  • ~Don’t ask yourself what the world needs, ask yourself what makes you come alive. And then go and do that. Because what the world needs is people who are alive.” – Howard Thurman~
  • 少一些批判、比较、分别心，多一些了解、包容与接纳。
  • ~ Make choices based on love and not fear. ~
  • What is not love, is fear.
  • ~ Love heals all. ~
  • 只要你们肯多用心，留意身边的人与事，就会发现，原来自己拥有的，已经很多。
  • U r here bcz of many ppl's kindness and contribution, so be appreciate.

Wednesday, March 30, 2011

我需要的 只是一个真诚支持我的拥抱

眼睛哭到很累。。
这种感觉，我不知该怎么用言语形容。。。

我现在需要的不过是一个拥抱。。我不需要语言的慰问，因为我没力量说话。。也不需要谁来告诉我现在该怎么做或不该怎么做。。之前上grief counseling workshop时，导师曾说，不太适合和刚有家人过世的人说“节哀顺变”，但是今天朋友却这样对我说。当下的感觉很。。我终于明白了为什么不适合这样说。。。但也没怪朋友，因为她也不晓得不适合这样说。。而且她也不知能说些什么了。。。所以也没期待她不能这样说。。所以我会觉得counseling是我生活的一部分。。。因为心灵的疗愈，是生命的一部分。。。因为让我更了解人，和可以怎样健康和有帮助些去面对人生和不因为自己说的而导致别人压抑情绪。。就像佛法是有些人的生活的一部分，这是没法分开的。。。但我仍在学。。还有太多我不懂得的时候。。

我现在需要的只是一个能给予我支持的拥抱，让我痛哭。。我不需要任何的语言。。。
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