看了这个觉得讯息很棒，很想在这里和有缘看见这篇文章的人分享。关于爱，这文章说得很棒。每当说到爱，多数人就会联想到爱情。联想到，有个人出现，然后拯救不快乐，感觉不被爱的自己。哦，不，亲爱的，真正的爱，不是这样的。我们会这样想和这样的相信，那是因为我们被这社会和电影所传达的电影扭曲了。你看看童话故事和好莱坞电影传达的讯息就知道了。电影多传达，当另一个人出现后，自己的生命变得多美好。
哦，不是这样的，亲爱的。真正的爱，只有在你开始真正学习接受自己，接受自己好的，不好的，不再批判自己时，学会爱自己时，才真正开始。你会吸引进入你生命当中的伴侣和你的频率是相似的。你渴望从另一个人那里得到爱，却不愿意爱自己，那你或许会在这段关系中体验失落和失望。失望，不是因为那个人不爱你，是因为在灵魂的角度而言，这段关系是来提醒你自己去看看这块失落，连你都无法爱的这部分，连你都不要自己的这部分，别人怎么要呢？
很喜欢这文章中的一句话：你无法去爱任何人，如果你不爱你自己。
是啊，有很深的感触。我会邀请你，去看看，当你在说着你爱一个人的时候，你究竟是“希望”从这个人身上也得到爱和关注来满足自己，还是其实你心中已经有满满的爱给你自己了，不管这个人做了什么回应给你，你也能够接受，因为你已经给了自己满满的爱，所以你能够接受和尊重别人爱的方式和回应。当然，不要去批判那个渴望别人爱自己的部分，去慈悲的了解这个自己，去学习接受这个自己。当然，请搞清楚，接受不代表认同。接受不代表说：是的，{我很渴望爱，渴望那个人给我爱}这渴望是“对的，应该的”。当然，接受也不是去批评：渴望爱是“不好的，肮脏的，错误的，不应该这样的”。接受是超越对或错，应该与不应该这样的二元对立的。二元对立只存在于人间的三次元空间，存在于小我的头脑思考里。需要很注意的就是，接受不是去认同，也不是批评自己这很重要。不了解的人或许会以为接受就是等同于认同这样做是对的，是放肆自己，不是这样的。
所以，请慈悲的去理解和接纳自己，这样就够了。
这不容易，即使是我也还没有做得很好。哈哈~这课题对我而言也不容易~所以我们都加油吧~
Bring Love in the World
Bring Love in the World
by Angela Schulz-Henke
This week is all about commitment, contracts and relationships.
- Be aware which commitments you have to fulfill and do it with love!
- Check your contracts and see which ones are right for you. What is not right, just release them!
- Check your relationships carefully. Which people are supporting you and who is an energy vampire?
- Check as well all the communication you had recently and solve all misunderstandings.
- Be more patient with others and do not argue about different opinions.
The year 2012 is the revolution of love. This starts with self acceptance and self love first. You cannot love anybody if you do not love yourself dearly. Most of us were always told not to be so selfish. Selfishness has nothing to do with loving and accepting yourself!
Why do we have so many singles in the world? Just alone in city like Munich nearly half of the population is single. Can you see the reason that more and more people are not capable to live a relationship? The reason is that we never learned to love ourselves.
If you cannot love yourself and expect to be loved, you only attract people who are like you. But what if then both people wait to receive love? Two people expecting love from the other person will never experience true love!
How can you change yourself that you are able to exchange love in your relationship?
Only those who learn to love themselves can attract a person, who loves himself/herself.
Then only unconditional love can flow and a wonderful partnership can be lived. This will even bring peace into the world. No more fighting and misunderstanding!
Start your morning in the bathroom and tell yourself that you love yourself. Smile at yourself and kiss your hand like Bob Proctor shows us.
Renew the power of your Self by
- speaking the truth
- loving yourself
- being you
- showing your true feelings
It is not about judging. Stop blaming other people. If you do not like your reality, start to change it by changing your thoughts.
You and I come from a phase of feeling. If you stop blaming others you will stop having negative feelings.
Do not be afraid to disagree with the ruling class, politics, churches etc. Many institutions which were set up on greed and keeping people in fear will have to change, if they want to survive. Just accept that we are in times of changes. The outside is no longer secure and trustworthy. Security you can only have in yourself not from the outside. There is a crisis of the consciousness. We need to create a new world. Are you ready to participate?
It may feel like anarchy as we have chaos at the transition to the new dimension. Be comfortable with yourself! When you love yourself and trust your gut feelings, you are secure!
This is your Mantra of this week:
“I am the love that I see in the outside world!”
原文摘自：
http://spiritualnetworks.com/blog/87098/bring-love-in-the-world/
by Angela Schulz-Henke
This week is all about commitment, contracts and relationships.
- Be aware which commitments you have to fulfill and do it with love!
- Check your contracts and see which ones are right for you. What is not right, just release them!
- Check your relationships carefully. Which people are supporting you and who is an energy vampire?
- Check as well all the communication you had recently and solve all misunderstandings.
- Be more patient with others and do not argue about different opinions.
The year 2012 is the revolution of love. This starts with self acceptance and self love first. You cannot love anybody if you do not love yourself dearly. Most of us were always told not to be so selfish. Selfishness has nothing to do with loving and accepting yourself!
Why do we have so many singles in the world? Just alone in city like Munich nearly half of the population is single. Can you see the reason that more and more people are not capable to live a relationship? The reason is that we never learned to love ourselves.
If you cannot love yourself and expect to be loved, you only attract people who are like you. But what if then both people wait to receive love? Two people expecting love from the other person will never experience true love!
How can you change yourself that you are able to exchange love in your relationship?
Only those who learn to love themselves can attract a person, who loves himself/herself.
Then only unconditional love can flow and a wonderful partnership can be lived. This will even bring peace into the world. No more fighting and misunderstanding!
Start your morning in the bathroom and tell yourself that you love yourself. Smile at yourself and kiss your hand like Bob Proctor shows us.
Renew the power of your Self by
- speaking the truth
- loving yourself
- being you
- showing your true feelings
It is not about judging. Stop blaming other people. If you do not like your reality, start to change it by changing your thoughts.
You and I come from a phase of feeling. If you stop blaming others you will stop having negative feelings.
Do not be afraid to disagree with the ruling class, politics, churches etc. Many institutions which were set up on greed and keeping people in fear will have to change, if they want to survive. Just accept that we are in times of changes. The outside is no longer secure and trustworthy. Security you can only have in yourself not from the outside. There is a crisis of the consciousness. We need to create a new world. Are you ready to participate?
It may feel like anarchy as we have chaos at the transition to the new dimension. Be comfortable with yourself! When you love yourself and trust your gut feelings, you are secure!
This is your Mantra of this week:
“I am the love that I see in the outside world!”
原文摘自：
http://spiritualnetworks.com/blog/87098/bring-love-in-the-world/
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