恐惧与焦虑 是信任与信心的测试 亦是教会你去学习信任与信心的一种方式
刚因为突然下雨,我突然担心不能去一个地方上课了,因为自己是踏脚车去的,但现在自己又有些轻微发烧,要我吹冷风淋一点雨走路出去肯定只会加重我的发烧而已。。所以有了些焦虑,担心是不是不能去上了。。然后一大堆负面的想法又跑了出来。。
突然所有想法停了下来,又没人说下雨天不能出去上课。。不是换种方式去咯。。这种时候就是运用创意去解决问题的时候。。
突然领悟到,如果我信任,信任宇宙无限的能量,信任所发生的一切终究是有其目的,是为了让我学习一些生命课题的,那么,我就会随遇而安,因为我明白这一切的背后都是善的目的。。
所以,就放心的,去看还有什么解决方式,能够让自己去到那里,并且要有信心,最终自己是能够去到的。
今天这一场雨,教会我的事,是当事情的发生并不如自己所期待的那样时,先别焦虑,还不如静下心来,相信这一切的发生,都有其目的,并有信心,自己是能够面对和处理的。。
保持当下心的宁静是最重要的。。当然这并不是叫你压抑你的情绪啦,当有情绪来时就该面对,聆听自己的内在声音而不是压抑或否认这情绪的存在。。因为那样做对自己很不健康。。
信任和有信心。。今天学到的人生功课。。以后还得对加练习和加强并运用在生活中。。因为我实在是太容易就焦虑了。。
my faVoUritE Inspired quOtes~
- ~ Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart. Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakens. – Carl Jung ~
- ~ Praise and blame, gain and loss, pleasure and sorrow, come and go like the wind. To be happy, rest like a giant tree in the midst of them all. --Buddha ~
- ~ 生命影响生命。~
- ~ The point of love is to make us grow, it is not to make us immediately happy. Marriame Williamson ~
- ~ The problem is never the problem. It is only a symptom of something much deeper. by Virginia Satir ~
- ~ Problem is not the problem, COPING is the problem. by Virginia Satir ~
- ~ 不要害怕犯错,从经验中学习。There is no mistake, only learning opportunity. ~
- ~ Transformation has occurred, when a person goes from saying, " I want to be loved" to " I am loved - by me". by Virginia Satir ~
- ~ You must become the change you want to see in the world. –Gandhi ~
- ~ Be patient with yourself.~
- ~ The more I Love Myself, the more I SEE Love reflected in those around me.~
- ~Don’t ask yourself what the world needs, ask yourself what makes you come alive. And then go and do that. Because what the world needs is people who are alive.” – Howard Thurman~
- 少一些批判、比较、分别心,多一些了解、包容与接纳。
- ~ Make choices based on love and not fear. ~
- What is not love, is fear.
- ~ Love heals all. ~
- 只要你们肯多用心,留意身边的人与事,就会发现,原来自己拥有的,已经很多。
- U r here bcz of many ppl's kindness and contribution, so be appreciate.
Wednesday, February 9, 2011
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