my faVoUritE Inspired quOtes~

  • ~ Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart. Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakens. – Carl Jung ~
  • ~ Praise and blame, gain and loss, pleasure and sorrow, come and go like the wind. To be happy, rest like a giant tree in the midst of them all. --Buddha ~
  • ~ 生命影响生命。~
  • ~ The point of love is to make us grow, it is not to make us immediately happy. Marriame Williamson ~
  • ~ The problem is never the problem. It is only a symptom of something much deeper. by Virginia Satir ~
  • ~ Problem is not the problem, COPING is the problem. by Virginia Satir ~
  • ~ 不要害怕犯错，从经验中学习。There is no mistake, only learning opportunity. ~
  • ~ Transformation has occurred, when a person goes from saying, " I want to be loved" to " I am loved - by me". by Virginia Satir ~
  • ~ You must become the change you want to see in the world. –Gandhi ~
  • ~ Be patient with yourself.~
  • ~ The more I Love Myself, the more I SEE Love reflected in those around me.~
  • ~Don’t ask yourself what the world needs, ask yourself what makes you come alive. And then go and do that. Because what the world needs is people who are alive.” – Howard Thurman~
  • 少一些批判、比较、分别心，多一些了解、包容与接纳。
  • ~ Make choices based on love and not fear. ~
  • What is not love, is fear.
  • ~ Love heals all. ~
  • 只要你们肯多用心，留意身边的人与事，就会发现，原来自己拥有的，已经很多。
  • U r here bcz of many ppl's kindness and contribution, so be appreciate.

Tuesday, January 3, 2012

看了戏后的启发：接受


昨天看了两套戏都有各自不同的启发。。

一套是我最近在收拾房间时收拾出来以前买的日本卡通片。。是一部有关死神的卡通电影。。那死神穿着白色的衣服，是一个很温柔死神，过程和ghost whisperer里女主角Melinda那样协助人完成一些unfinished business所做的相似，那死神在协助一些活下来的人和亡者沟通，好让活下来的人能够说完他们未说完的遗憾，好让活着的人可以放下他们所紧抓的，然后好好的活下去。
看了里边其中一个小故事后我哭了。然后我才突然意识到原来在我心中还是有些失落感的，或许比起以前现在的失落感感觉比较淡些了，但是，那份失落感还是在的。
突然想起一句话，“If u numb ur sorrow, u numb ur feeling and love towards life too.”
是啊，当我麻痹了自己的悲伤，我连对生活的感觉也一起麻痹了。
感恩，今天，我又接纳了这个仍然感觉失落的自己，而不是把自己推开。

另一部戏中的主角说他曾经很后悔当初做了一个决定让他遗憾了很多年，他原本决定如果可以重来他绝对会做不一样的决定。但没想到当再次面临同样的情况时，他还是选择了一样的决定。
这让我突然放下了心中原本有些遗憾的事。我明白，即使再重来，我或许还是会做同样的选择的。现在，我选择了接受那时当下的因缘。那时所发生的事情的因缘是那样，而我当时的因缘是那样所以做了那样的决定。我接受事情就是这样发生了。我接受了当时的我的状况所做的决定。当我不再批判我自己时，我接受了那个我自己。我也接受了当时当下的因缘就是如此。

当你选择了不再推开，而选择了去理解然后接受，那你的心就恢复了平静。
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