今天有个学生告诉我说他很压力因为明天考试了,这让我才突然意识到原来他有这样的压力,才想起自己在这样的年龄当着学生时也曾经历这样的感觉不是吗,就想了想,告诉他说,只要过程中努力了,尽了全力,即使成绩(结果)不好,那也不要紧,重要的是我们学习到了什么,我们也已尽力了。当我在说:只要过程中尽力全力,那么。。。说到这里时,坐在他旁边的好友认真的看着我说,“重要的是过程中尽力就好,结果不重要”他的话还真有点出乎我意料啊。。我在这种年龄是无法理解这句话的。。其实我也不知道他们理解了这句话多少。。但是新新时代的水晶小孩果真是不一样的。。哈哈。。说话的这位同学是有学佛因缘的,他为人也蛮照顾朋友的。。。遇见这些小孩,教会了我好多。。。
不过这却让我突然想起曾经看过这样一句话:努力过程,放手结果。
我教会他们的是知识,他们教会我的,是生命。他们教会我的,是真诚的笑容。是真诚的关怀。他们的一个小动作,就足以让我感觉很。。。?工作太累了,脑当机,不懂怎么接下去。。
回家后发生了些小事,让我突然意识也启发了一些事情。。。
心累了。。好久没回心的家了。。
祝福自己,祝福家人,祝福小孩们~祝福所有生命~
my faVoUritE Inspired quOtes~
- ~ Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart. Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakens. – Carl Jung ~
- ~ Praise and blame, gain and loss, pleasure and sorrow, come and go like the wind. To be happy, rest like a giant tree in the midst of them all. --Buddha ~
- ~ 生命影响生命。~
- ~ The point of love is to make us grow, it is not to make us immediately happy. Marriame Williamson ~
- ~ The problem is never the problem. It is only a symptom of something much deeper. by Virginia Satir ~
- ~ Problem is not the problem, COPING is the problem. by Virginia Satir ~
- ~ 不要害怕犯错,从经验中学习。There is no mistake, only learning opportunity. ~
- ~ Transformation has occurred, when a person goes from saying, " I want to be loved" to " I am loved - by me". by Virginia Satir ~
- ~ You must become the change you want to see in the world. –Gandhi ~
- ~ Be patient with yourself.~
- ~ The more I Love Myself, the more I SEE Love reflected in those around me.~
- ~Don’t ask yourself what the world needs, ask yourself what makes you come alive. And then go and do that. Because what the world needs is people who are alive.” – Howard Thurman~
- 少一些批判、比较、分别心,多一些了解、包容与接纳。
- ~ Make choices based on love and not fear. ~
- What is not love, is fear.
- ~ Love heals all. ~
- 只要你们肯多用心,留意身边的人与事,就会发现,原来自己拥有的,已经很多。
- U r here bcz of many ppl's kindness and contribution, so be appreciate.
Tuesday, October 18, 2011
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